I haven't read Scott's book (though I have seen some of the pictures -- Wow!) so I don't know what procedure he gives; also, it's been about twenty years since I've used the homebrew softener. We use GF-20 from Veneer Systems, but I'm guessing that Super Soft is the same stuff or pretty similar. In any case, I think they all rely on glycerine for the softening action.
When we use GF-20, we thoroughly wet each veneer leaf and allow the liquid to flash off (about 1/2 hour, I believe). If using a cold press (such as a vac press), you would then want to sandwich the veneer between two good flat cauls (3/4" MDF minimum) and press overnight. Forget about "a couple of cinder blocks and some plywood" for pressing -- you need more force. We don't usually put paper between the veneer leaves, but with the homebrew I think you would need to use paper to keep the PVA from gluing the leaves together. After flattening the leaves you usually have a day or two to press your veneer before the effect wears off. Sometimes it never wears off, go figure!
Is that what you are doing?
Other thoughts:
Is the Super Soft diluted properly? GF-20 has to be diluted and if it is not it can interfere with bonding.
Is the veneer dry enough after flattening? Too much moisture left in it and it isn't going to bond.
Is your Ultra Cat fresh? Again, we don't use this product but it looks like a powdered urea resin glue which is a good choice for this project. However, that type of glue has a relatively short shelf life. This is personal preference, but I like Unibond for a cold-pressed urea. I would not use a PVA like the Better Bond for a crotch -- not rigid enough (buy me a beer and you can ask me how I know this...).
Are you leaving the panels in the press long enough and at a high enough temperature? Even cold press glues have minimum working temperatures, and urea needs a baseline to kick off the chemical reaction.
Lastly, you are using a platen or caul on the veneer, right? You can't have the bag push directly on the veneer and expect this to work.
If you answer these questions I and the others on this forum will try to help you work through this.
Best,
John